Are you stuck in daily battles with your young child over simple requests like getting dressed or cleaning up? This blog post explores what a power struggle really is, why they happen, and what’s going on beneath the surface when “no” turns into a meltdown. Written for overwhelmed parents of toddlers and preschoolers, this warm and relatable guide will help you recognize the signs of a power struggle and understand how your response shapes your child’s behavior.

What we know from the lens of child development is that toddlers are not neurologically able to regulate their emotions.